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Tuesday, June 18, 2013
"Bringing Your Sexy Back" pt. 1
Why Don't Women Feel Free to Talk About SEX!!! Let's Look at Some of the Myths and Misconceptions about "SEX"
Is it because of the way we where reared?
Is it that we've been program to think that SEXis dirty, because of the way television, video's and pornography betray SEX?
Or, is it that when we start speaking about SEXthere's know one willing to listen...
Back in the day our mother's told us about how to
be a good wife and mother but when it came to
SEX they would say it's dirty and you'll know
what to do when the time comes. But how
could we know what to do if know one ever told us
about SEX. So we get married and started a
relationship without ever knowing the ins and outs
of SEX. We don't know how we should feel, if it's
going to hurt, how to protect ourselves, or even if
we are doing it right and when we ask the question
"How is your SEX life?" people look at us like we
have two heads. But what they don't realize is that
as a women we where never taught the basics of
SEX. What do I mean by the basics of SEX is
knowing you own body such as where's your
G-Spot is and how does it work? What's your
favorite SEXUAL position? Is foreplay something
you need or not? Does oral SEXUAL play a major
part in your SEX life or do you even know what
oral SEX feels like? Do you know how to make
food a part of your SEXUAL experience? These
are just a few things you should have been told
about before you started having SEX. But, as
women we where told to be quite and let him show
you what his needs and likes where in the
bedroom. And, my question is "Why was it
acceptable for them to tell us as women what they
wanted but it wasn't acceptable for us to tell them
what we wanted and needed when it came to
SEX." So, ladies let's started today by telling our
truth. Say what you want, how you want it, when
you want it and where you want it (SEX). Because
when you don't tell your partner what you want
then you can't say, I'm not getting my needs met in
the bedroom. Don't be mistaken I understand that
some of you may not know what you want but if
you've ever fantasize about any SEXUAL
experience then that's what you want.
When a man ask you what's your SEXUAL fantasy
is don't sit and say "I DON"T KNOW" because
he's opening the door for you to tell him what he
can do to make you feel like a superstar in the
bedroom. SEX is no longer taboo it's up front and
personal so get on the train or horse and ride it
until all your walls come down. Ladies earlier I
said live your truth and this is just one way to
started living your truth. This is for the women
who want to be loved the right way at all time and
the woman who wants to learn more so she can do
more in the bedroom, kitchen, living room, office,
bathroom and all the other rooms. Be free ladies
and let's "BRING YOUR SEXY BACK" in and out
of the bedroom!!!!!
Note to the Ladies: If you're confused about where your G-Spot is then stay tune because we will talk about it in the upcoming blogs...