Tuesday, November 25, 2014

What Does It Mean When You Say "I LOVE YOU" to Someone

When it comes to LOVE you must be willing to open yourself up to feel things that may not always be comfortable to you... If you are truly in LOVE with someone you are always willing to learn how to LOVE them the way they need to be LOVED... In my lifetime I've learned that LOVE is work just like anything else in life but it's not pain.  LOVE isn't just a feeling it's truly a lifestyle... I've been blessed to LOVE some really great men and I've been LOVED by some great men... but at this point in my life I'm single and I'm learning more about how to LOVE myself.  This is so important because if you don't know how to LOVE yourself at every stage of your life then you just may settle for something that looks like LOVE but it's not really LOVE... At this point in life you shouldn't be settling for LOVE you should be in a LOVING relationship that works for you and the other person in the relationship LOVE is a partnership not a dictatorship...

What I mean is everyone is capable of given LOVE but it's not always the LOVE you may need to keep or make you happy.  If you don't know how to LOVE yourself you can't possibly know how to LOVE someone else.  You see some people say I LOVE YOU when they really don't know what LOVE is or they may only know the kind of LOVE that comes from PAIN so this is the only kind of LOVE they can give... And being in a situation were the other person has never felt LOVE in a good manner.  

So can you LOVE someone the way they need to be LOVED once you know how to LOVE yourself "YES" you can but you can ONLY LOVE another person if you know how to LOVE yourself first...  Life gives us lot's of things to deal with but LOVE will give you one of the most important things in this life an that's a partner who will always be there for you and that's what everyone wants even when they don't know it...

Remember, this LOVE isn't selfish, controlling or painful... LOVE is compassion, understanding, work and most of all COMMUNICATION!!!  Don't give up on LOVE because if you do you'll give up on yourself...


Thursday, October 24, 2013


The Naked Truth will be moving to a new blog address in the next week.  It would be great if everyone would go to "TheNakedTruthRevealed.wordpress.com" and follow I would love it...  You're going to get lots of new and improved information and I can't wait to get more information out to more individuals.  So, I'll see you at The Naked Truth Revealed.

Wednesday, October 23, 2013

A Different Kind of LOVE

"The Different Types of LOVE"

When you ask individuals this question you can get lots of different answers.   Some individuals will say it's when you date and LOVE someone of a different race, others may say it's LOVING an individual who may be younger or older than you,  you'll hear things like LOVE is when the individual whom I LOVE does what I say and it goes on and on.  So I decided to look up what the dictionary says the word LOVE means and this is what it said..

  • A profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person
  • A feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend
  • Sexual passion or desire
  • A person toward whom LOVE is felt; beloved person; sweetheart
Now, the Bible says that the word LOVE means "purposeful commitment to sacrificial action for another."  

LOVE is a powerful emotion that is selfless and giving.  This kind of LOVE makes you completely happy and confident.  You may ask the question, "Where's can I find that kind of LOVE?"  Well, before you can have this type of LOVE with someone else you have to LOVE yourself completely and totally.  And once you have this type of LOVE on the inside of you the LOVE of your life will come into your life like a flood.  LOVE is powerful and you have to be ready for it or when it comes you'll miss it or mess it up because you have know clue as to what it looks or feels like.  So, think about this have you missed the LOVE that you've been waiting on because you really don't know what LOVE really looks like.  I've learned that LOVE is a powerful force that you can't control but you can enjoy it if you freely let it happen... So my advice is go out there an find LOVE and once you do LOVE hard, long, strong and with all the passion you have because you just my find that it's the joy, happiness, piece, and freedom you've been waiting on...


Monday, October 21, 2013


Freely Given LOVE Freely Reserve LOVE 

I was speaking with a couple of individuals this week about "what LOVE really means" and everyone had a different answer for me which let me know that people don't really know what LOVE is.  People think LOVE is the way someone looks, speak, dress, acts or even how they have sex.  But the truth is none of these things are LOVE these things are just by products of LOVE.  Because if you truly LOVE someone you want to speak correctly, dress well, act or be your best you, and you'll always look you best for them so you see those things aren't LOVE there just the perks of LOVE...

Everyone we live life without LIMITS but they LIMIT how they LOVE one another in our relationships (family, friendships, and romantic relationship).  We want people to LOVE us but we aren't willing to give the LOVE we continually ask others for.  We say to someone you're not loving me the way I need to be LOVE yet you don't even understand what the true meaning of LOVE is.  You can't ask someone to give you something you don't know the meaning of and something you can't freely give in return.  When you ask someone to LOVE you with know LIMITS you must be willing to LOVE that person with no LIMITS at all.  This means opening your HEART and MIND to maybe getting disappointed in your relationship but at the end of the day you will truly be working towards building a LOVING romantic relationship. You must remember that people are human and this mean everything will never be perfect but if you are willing to work hard on LOVE in a relationship then that LIMITLESSNESS will come freely to you, because the other person knows that you are in the relationship know matter what comes up.  So if you want LOVE you must really think about how willing you are to give away the one thing that you whole dear and that's your HEART you can't keep playing the ME game you've got to learn how to live the US life.  

If you look up the word LOVE you will find many different definition for it but when you really find it and you know the you have it don't let any of your selfish thinking keep you from having it.  Life is to short to live without the one thing that God has given to us so freely LOVE.  Today make your mind up and go for the goal LOVE without LIMITS.  It's out there for you just look at what's in front of you because you could already have it and don't even know it...  LOVE is a choose so go make the right one it could be the one thing that puts everything else in your life in order...

So, you may say while what is LOVE?  It's the passion you feel for someone else, it's the way your heart beat when he/she walks in the room, it's sharing looks that only you understand, it's holding hands for no reason, it's sharing your dreams and goals without feeling like you're been judge, and it's the willingness to make sure that the other person has what they need first.  LOVE is making a difference in the way you think about your life if that person wasn't in it... This is LOVE and it's worth having so don't hold back and don't give it up because you may never find it again...