Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Is It Real LOVE

Everyone needs to remember that Love is a strong emotion an when you're saying it to someone make sure you are ready for what comes along with the word.  I know there are a lot of people that said the words I Love You an don't have a clue as to what it really takes to Love someone.  I can only speak from a women's point of view but if you are in a relationship with someone before the words I Love you comes out of your mouth make sure you mean it.  Don't play with someones heart or there emotions because you could do damage to that individual that will never be repaired and when that person goes into there next relationship the new person will suffer from your action.  Falling in Love is a beautiful thing just know who you're falling in Love with before you commit your heart to someone because they may not be capable of Loving you the way you deserve to be Love.  I've learned a lot about Love in the last two years and I found out that just because someone says they Love you doesn't mean they really do.  I fell in Love with someone who just didn't know how to Love me an because of that we aren't together today.  Now, I'm sure that if you asked him did I know how to Love him he would say I didn't.    But I can say that I've learned a lot about pain and heartbreak most of all I've learned about how to Love someone with all my heart and for that I'm so very thankful.   Love is an emotion that most people really don't know how to handle and other abuse.  And I've learn in these last two and half years how Love isn't something you can't control it's something you freely do and hope that the person you're doing it with Loves you the same way.  If I could say anything to all the individuals who read this blog it would be Love yourself so that when Love comes your way you know what it looks like.  It's not going to always going to be a walk in the park but if it's Love it will be worth it.  You may say how do you know that and I would say to you "what is life if you don't have Love?"  It can be a very lonely life without someone to Love... As human beings we are made to be in Love so if you Love someone don't let anything stand in the way of you being with that person because you may not find that kind of Love again in your lifetime...

Remember:  Love isn't easy but it's always worth fighting for....so don't let it disappear because you didn't have your way.  Love is more than having your way it's work and sometimes it knowing how to pick your battles or just knowing how to let the other person have their way...  Love is always Give and Take...



SMOOOCHESSS!!!
                                                                            

Sunday, April 5, 2015

What EASTER is truly about

Easter is the day we celebrate JESUS CHRIST and His resurrection...  We celebrate the Love of CHRIST and what He did for all of us...  So today remember that it's not about the way you put you outfit together, the way you wear your hair, the eggs you hide for you kids to find, the Easter Bunny or the food you cook today.  It's about how much you Love CHRIST and how much he Loved you, so when you go out today to church, lunch, or where ever you're going today thank GOD for the chance to celebrate the one who gave His life for all of us JESUS CHRIST...  Today remember that this day all about the Love of CHRIST...what He has done for you and the ones you Love...  This is just a note to all my readers to remind you about what's important today an that's JESUS CHRIST our Savior...  Enjoy the life you're living, the love ones you have and the friends you have because that's what this life you've been giving is all about...

Have a Blessed Easter!!!

SMOOOCHESSS!!!

Saturday, February 14, 2015

Happy Valentine's Day

This is a day when LOVE is in the air and everyone wants to be with that special someone. GIFTS are been given and received an LOVE is been show.  No one is thinking of doing anything but LOVING there spouses, partners, friends and family.  They will go to know ends to show them how much they mean to them. VALENTINE'S DAY is a holiday you give out flowers, candy, jewelry and lots of LOVE but after today can you continue to give that LOVE freely without hesitation?  I believe this is a time when you open your heart to all possibilities and you don't hold back because as I always say LIFE is just to short to be in the world alone.  You may not think that there's anyone out there for you but there is and if you don't have that special someone this moment just know that YOU can still have a special VALENTINE'S DAY.  If you'll learn how to treat yourself on VALENTINE'S DAY then when that special someone comes in your life they will know how to treat you because you will have all ready establish how LOVE feels for and to you.  In this big old world there's know woman or man that is a island by themselves but you can enjoy your island until that special someone comes to enjoy it with you, but when they come be open to letting them in don't forget the island is made for two...  So today if you don't have that special VALENTINE it's okay just get to know the person you are so that when he or she comes they'll know how to enjoy this very special day with you.  And, most of all they will know how to enjoy LIFE with you.  Don't limit yourself to someone else giving you flower, candy, jewelry, etc. give it to yourself because the one thing that's for sure you'll always get the gift correct.  Remember, today is the DAY everyone celebrates LOVE and if you're in a RELATIONSHIP or not in a RELATIONSHIP you're still LOVED.  Now, it VALENTINE'S DAY make sure you enjoy it because it's worth enjoying with your special person or by yourself because you're the most important person in your life so why no treat yourself well.  If you don't LOVE you how can anyone else ever LOVE you... Remember, LOVE is made up of so many choices good, bad, wright, wrong, difficult or just plain crazy... that's why it's called LOVE it's something we all need.

This is the DAY of the year when everyone gets a LOVE pass and all is forgiven so have a wonderful VALENTINE'S DAY with yourself first of all and with the ONE'S you LOVE secondly... 

SIDE NOTE:  If there's someone you LOVE and you want to be with them don't let angry, fear, doubt, selfishness or anything else hold you back today from being with the one you truly LOVE go after what you REALLY want you'll never know what could have been if you don't try to figure it OUT...Sometimes you have to keep trying if it's really LOVE an only you know that deep in your HEART where only you and God live...

QUESTION:  "So can we keep this LOVE going for the rest of the year?"  because I would hate to think that it get all used up in one day.  Our HEARTS should never be so guarded that we only let LOVE in once a year on VALENTINE'S DAY.  Please think about what I'm saying to you on this vey special day...
                                     
                                      HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY TO ALL OF YOU!!!
                                   My wish is that YOU receive everything YOU hoped for... 

                                                              SMOOOCHESSS!!!

                                                                            


Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Good Bye Pain

Good Bye Pain

I've Loved you for so very long but I didn't Love myself so I couldn't show you how to Love me.  I can remember you telling me that I didn't know how to Love you and I finally realize that you where so very correct because how could I Love you in the way a person should be Love if I've never really Loved myself.  So I thank you for the lesson you give me on not Loving myself first now you may not know it yet but you where the one person that made me look at myself an make a change that will carry me through the rest of my Life.  So even though the things I didn't do right when you were hear I make a choose to change on purpose to be a great me in this the second part of my LIFE.  One of the greatest lesson I've learned is this "when you show me who you were I should have believed you" because you know you better then anyone else.  So thank you again Pain for showing me who you are and who I am... Life has shown me so much Pain and I didn't think I was going to make it through this last heartbreak but I realize now that this was a lesson I needed to learn in order to become a better person.  Now, I can say to you Pain and all of the other pain I have endure these pass few years I'm overcoming an I'm growing with and in wisdom, knowledge and understanding.  So, now I can say GOODBYE PAIN AND HELLO LIFE!!!  I'm on my way to a knew place where LOVE is easy and emotion comes freely because Chang makes it easier to do.  

Pain, I say to you that Life isn't easy but Oh God it is so worth have and through it all it makes everyone better.  So I say to you if you don't open your heart to really reserve LOVE you will always be alone or with someone who wants from you the one thing you can't give because you think that everyone wants those material things.  Pain you are a great teacher but because there's a God LOVE is a better teacher.  Pain you've shown me how to Love myself and Love with an open heart because every heartbreak is one great lesson that shows me how to Love the one who will LOVE me unconditionally with the Love I've alway needed and wanted.  I can say to you (Pain) now I'm at peace with you (Pain) because I'm at peace with myself now... Thank You Pain and Goodbye!!! 


To all "The Naked Truth Revealed" readers 2014 was good but 2015 is going to be GREAT!!!
So stay tune for a LOVE worth HAVING...

This is the last blog entire for this year 2014

#SMOOOCHESSS








Thursday, December 25, 2014

Merry Christmas To All

This is the season to Forgive, Forget, Restore and Learn to Love Yourself and Others...  These things will Heal your Heart and Life...


When it Looks Like You're Cloud is Never going to end Remember that God has put a Rainbow in Your Cloud so it will get Better and You will overcome....
MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!