Saturday, December 13, 2014

LOVE Letter to Pain

This is the LETTER to Pain that Every Woman and Man has felt when they Have a 
BROKENHEART...



Dear PAIN
You came into my life when I didn't think I could LOVE again and you showed me things I would have never even taken a LOOK at if not for you.  You showed me the flowers in the forest and how to smell the roses with a passion know one else could have ever shown me.  I fell in LOVE with you from day one and I never looked by but you didn't realize that my LOVE wasn't about what you had or how other saw you.  You didn't understand that I don't care how others see you I just want to be with you but you could only see what was around me.  PAIN, I don't know if you ever really saw me for who I really was but I know now that there's know way possible that you saw me because if you had I wouldn't have a broken heart right now.  You have shown me the beauty in this world and you have shown me the sorrow an yet I LOVE you more than you'll ever know.  PAIN, I cry when I think about what we both have lost but most of all Pain I cry when I think about what you couldn't see right in front of you.  You said you wanted someone to LOVE you with there whole heart and that's what I did but you where to busy looking at what was around me to see what you had with me and now I'm left with a broken heart and a lot of sorrow.  While I wish you all the best in your life but I must tell you this you'll never find someone who will LOVE you through the GOOD and BAD times the way I have and would have because for me PAIN it was something I wanted to do.  Being with you wasn't BAD for me it was just a LEARNING experience, but I guess for you it was just something to do and that's way you could walk away feeling nothing.  PAIN, you've shown me how to LOVE because the next time REAL LOVE comes my way I'll hold onto it with everything in me and I want let go unlike you... Always remember that I didn't leave you PAIN you left me and though I don't want to LIVE my LIFE without you I must because you don't know how to LOVE me the way I need you to LOVE me.  Even though you have not a clue as to how much I LOVED you I hope one day you'll figure it out so LOVE can find you.  So even though you have given me a lot of pain I can still say that my time with you was a great time and I wouldn't change it for nothing in the world.  So, Pain, I want to say thank you for the lessons you show me and teaching me how to LOVE the right way for the rest of my LIFE...  I can now say I truly know what LOVE really is.  I wish you only the best in your LIFE...I know you don't care about what I've got to say but I needed to say it anyway...


                                                                                            With LOVE,
                                                                                                    

                                                                SMOOOCHESSS!!!

Sunday, November 30, 2014

The Naked Truth: Love Is a POWERFUL Word

The Naked Truth: Love Is a POWERFUL Word: LOVE is a POWERFUL word with all types of EMOTION that SHOWS UP in so many DIFFERENT Ways in YOUR LIFE.... A YOUNG MANAND HIS GRANDFA...

Love Is a POWERFUL Word

LOVE is a POWERFUL word with all types of EMOTION that SHOWS UP in so many DIFFERENT Ways in YOUR LIFE....



A YOUNG MANAND HIS GRANDFATHER (FAMILY LOVE)
LOVE is a easy word to say but a hard EMOTION to have.  Everyone uses the word LOVE so much and so very easy until the meaning of the word has know real value in this day and time.  I believe that if people took the time to tell the truth the word LOVE would have so much more  meaningful and purpose.  I found myself saying to someone the other day that I LOVED them when I really meant I like you and you're a very nice person that I would like to get to know better.  So, I had to check myself and go to that person and tell them what I really meant when I said I LOVE them.  If you're not true to yourself about what you mean then you'll never be able to be true with another person.  Now I'm not saying you're going to be the most popular person by saying what you really mean but you will be honest and you will fill much better about the things you say and do...  

Truly you don't LOVE everyone you know you like a lot of them and some of them you don't even like you just put up with them because you want to be a nice person but as far as LOVING them all know that's not TRUE at all.  If you want to be really honest with yourself the take this challenge.  


                                                                CHALLENGE
Take out a piece of paper an write down the names of all the be in your life that you truly care for then on that same piece of paper write by their name if you like them or LOVE them or just want them around for some odd reason.  Now you must be willing to tell yourself the HARD TRUE or don't even do the challenge.  Once you have finish with this challenge be honest with the individuals by telling them the true now don't be mean just be honest because you don't LOVE everyone it's just not humanly possible.  Why do I say that while it's because we as humans are to selfish to LOVE everyone.  I wish it wasn't true but it is!!!  I would never ask you to do something I wouldn't do so for the next 30 days figure this out and do it.  Now, it's not going to be very easy but in the end at least you'll know who you really love and what you should stop telling and saying to people.  Even if you never tell the individuals about your results at least you'll know...

Woman and Man (Relationship LOVE)
LOVE is a four letter word that needs to be used when and if you really mean it not for general sayings.  Words are powerful tools listen to what you're say and how you say them they could truly make or break a relationship, friendship, or partnership so be careful with this word (LOVE) because it could make or break the individual your saying it to.  I've told a lot of individuals that I LOVE them an didn't really mean it but now I know to only use the word LOVE with the individuals that I hold so very close to my heart.  This don't mean I don't care for the individuals that I've told I LOVE them because I do I just don't LOVE them yet... 

NOTE: I've LOVE some individuals but I didn't really show it the way they needed me to show it to them and I've lost those relationships and friendships, but now I know where I went wrong an now I can correct those issue so I'll never lose another individuals I LOVE in my LIFE.  From this point on I will LOVE with a PASSION like know other and always show the ones whom I LOVE that they are LOVED by me.  Take it from me LOVE is a very BIG and POWERFUL word an it means more then you'll ever know to people so stop saying it if you don't really mean it from the heart...  In the english language we have a lot of words that are POWERFUL and BIG but LOVE is that and so much more...

TWO CLOSE FRIENDS (ex. LOVE in a Friendship)


                                                           SMOOOCHESSS!!!

Tuesday, November 25, 2014

What Does It Mean When You Say "I LOVE YOU" to Someone

When it comes to LOVE you must be willing to open yourself up to feel things that may not always be comfortable to you... If you are truly in LOVE with someone you are always willing to learn how to LOVE them the way they need to be LOVED... In my lifetime I've learned that LOVE is work just like anything else in life but it's not pain.  LOVE isn't just a feeling it's truly a lifestyle... I've been blessed to LOVE some really great men and I've been LOVED by some great men... but at this point in my life I'm single and I'm learning more about how to LOVE myself.  This is so important because if you don't know how to LOVE yourself at every stage of your life then you just may settle for something that looks like LOVE but it's not really LOVE... At this point in life you shouldn't be settling for LOVE you should be in a LOVING relationship that works for you and the other person in the relationship LOVE is a partnership not a dictatorship...

What I mean is everyone is capable of given LOVE but it's not always the LOVE you may need to keep or make you happy.  If you don't know how to LOVE yourself you can't possibly know how to LOVE someone else.  You see some people say I LOVE YOU when they really don't know what LOVE is or they may only know the kind of LOVE that comes from PAIN so this is the only kind of LOVE they can give... And being in a situation were the other person has never felt LOVE in a good manner.  


So can you LOVE someone the way they need to be LOVED once you know how to LOVE yourself "YES" you can but you can ONLY LOVE another person if you know how to LOVE yourself first...  Life gives us lot's of things to deal with but LOVE will give you one of the most important things in this life an that's a partner who will always be there for you and that's what everyone wants even when they don't know it...

Remember, this LOVE isn't selfish, controlling or painful... LOVE is compassion, understanding, work and most of all COMMUNICATION!!!  Don't give up on LOVE because if you do you'll give up on yourself...


                                                                    SMOOOCHESSS!!!