IT TAKE TWO TO MAKE A RELATIONSHIP WORK


Ladies we are always saying that Man are cheaters but what about the fact that women are cheaters also it’s just not talked about as much. We sit back and speak about how wrong we’ve been done by a men but do we ever ask ourselves the question, “What have I done to deserve this kind of TREATMENT?”  and I'm not saying you've done something all the time but something we do push the envelope.   Because believe me when I say this you have done something in your lifetime for you to be in the relationship position you’re in.  It could be that when you said you LOVE someone and you know you didn’t but you said it anyway just to get what you want from that person, you played the field an thought know one would ever find out but they did or you just simply took someones feeling for gratuity you have done something in your pass to get you were you are today.  So, Ladies let’s own our wrongs and stop saying we don’t know WHY we're in a relationship that's not the way we want it to be.  It takes two to make a relationship work and it also takes two to destroy a relationship.  Take a look at what you are doing and change yourself first before you ask someone else to change for you.  A person should never have to change for someone else but they should change to make themselves better.  Life is to short to play childish game when you say your a grow woman or men.  So, this is you and you want to do better then go ahead an started doing better NOW!!! because your true relationship is waiting on you.   If you want a GREAT relationship started by looking at YOURSELF in a mirror and build a GREAT RELATIONSHIP with yourself … Believe it or not when you learn how to treat yourself then you'll never have to tell anyone how to treat you... Everyone should be willing to treat themselves with respect in order the get respect believe me when I say this if you don't respect yourself  know one else will ever respect you

SMOOOCHESSS!!!

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