This BLOG is been written in hopes that it will HELP individuals understand LOVE and RELATIONSHIPS. The Truth about having LOVED and being LOVED. Showing you how LOVE can CHANGE your Life for the BETTER even when YOU don't THINK it will... This BLOG is built on over 29 years of learning about LOVE and RELATIONSHIPS from myself and other women and men who have LOVED and been LOVED... I HOPE the content helps every reader in a positive way... SMOOOCHESSS!!!
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
How do you know if you married the right person? cont.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because, THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND. SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO TO make your marriage work.
Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship Will make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable - you can "make" love.
Remember,LOVE andDEDICATION it always work if you continue on a daily effort....