What Does It Mean When You Say "I LOVE YOU" to Someone

When it comes to LOVE you must be willing to open yourself up to feel things that may not always be comfortable to you... If you are truly in LOVE with someone you are always willing to learn how to LOVE them the way they need to be LOVED... In my lifetime I've learned that LOVE is work just like anything else in life but it's not pain.  LOVE isn't just a feeling it's truly a lifestyle... I've been blessed to LOVE some really great men and I've been LOVED by some great men... but at this point in my life I'm single and I'm learning more about how to LOVE myself.  This is so important because if you don't know how to LOVE yourself at every stage of your life then you just may settle for something that looks like LOVE but it's not really LOVE... At this point in life you shouldn't be settling for LOVE you should be in a LOVING relationship that works for you and the other person in the relationship LOVE is a partnership not a dictatorship...

 What I mean is everyone is capable of given LOVE but it's not always the LOVE you may need to keep or make you happy.  If you don't know how to LOVE yourself you can't possibly know how to LOVE someone else.  You see some people say I LOVE YOU when they really don't know what LOVE is or they may only know the kind of LOVE that comes from PAIN so this is the only kind of LOVE they can give... And being in a situation were the other person has never felt LOVE in a good manner.  


So can you LOVE someone the way they need to be LOVED once you know how to LOVE yourself "YES" you can but you can ONLY LOVE another person if you know how to LOVE yourself first...  Life gives us lot's of things to deal with but LOVE will give you one of the most important things in this life an that's a partner who will always be there for you and that's what everyone wants even when they don't know it...

 Remember, this LOVE isn't selfish, controlling or painful... LOVE is compassion, understanding, work and most of all COMMUNICATION!!!  Don't give up on LOVE because if you do you'll give up on yourself...
                                                                    SMOOOCHESSS!!!

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